What do know about love? What have you understood about
love? What makes you fall in love? How do you know if you are in love?
As ironic as it may sound, but love was the simplest and the
most complicated feeling that existed according to her. She had fallen in love
several times and believed that love could be shared and could happen more than
once. Every time she broke up, she used to take months to move on, but once
moved on she used to fall in love once again, not that she forgot the love for
her previous boyfriend but still loved her current boyfriend as much as she
loved the previous or even more.
Love for her was a very pure feeling, and she couldn't lie
about it just because the society will call her a cheap or even a slut, or
because her current boyfriend will get hurt. She always gave her 100% and was
always loyal, but like love, loyalty cannot be defined. Being loyal doesn't
mean you are not allowed to think about a third person, you are not allowed to
appreciate the other person or you are not allowed to be human to other guys
around. Being in a relationship should not restrict you or your feelings. Your
love for someone doesn't mean you are bound to him. And if you say you haven’t
fallen for any person, be it for his charm, looks, or just nature, since you
are in a serious relationship, then 99% of the people are lying. Lying to their
partners or lying to their own selves, or just binding their own selves to
something that isn't acceptable.
Many people will argue that, people in love are supposed to
be possessive. Firstly nothing is ‘supposed to’ in love. It isn't bound by
rules and regulations, if it is, then it isn't love, it’s a compromise, a
show-off or an adjustment. And yes possessiveness is necessary and natural but
again it cannot be defined. There is a difference between being possessive and
being insecure. Love is respecting a person and accepting him/her like they
naturally are. People change when they fall in love, people do adjust when they
are in a relationship but that change and adjustment should not be forced or
even influenced, it should be natural.
Nobody can answer what is love, not even Shakespeare or even
Shahrukh Khan. Love is different for each individual. She might believe in
something that her partner won’t believe in. Both the people should be able to
accept each other with the differences. It’s not always about what society
thinks, it’s about what you and your partner think. Love is an amazing feeling,
let be as amazing with will, don’t get your wishes around it and spoil the
feeling.
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